I don't know why the two of you are doing this, cuz it looks like a horrible idea from the outside.
My main ? to kick this off is this;
How can two people have brunch to discuss someone that clearly neither of them are over??
For whatever reason, both of you get some sort of delight from the fact that he still writes/IMs you, and that's not just my observation.
Yeah, let's be over something and still have it be a main topic of discussion.
You're not slick, not even a litle bit.
She was wrong, call it square and be done w/ it. But don't build a friendship on fragile bullshit like you're def in the process of doing.
How can you get together and discuss someone that oooobviously neither of you really knew, or you wouldn't be in this mess in the first place??
Riddle me that, cuz I'm hella confused.
It reminded me a lot of when YOU and Rebecca would sit and chat about you-know-who last winter.. We all heard it, all the one-ups and short jabs ya'll threw out there, cute little mentions of this and that, just to never be outdone.
That's not a reason to talk to someone, just so ya know.
And I wish either of ya'll WOULD sit here and tell me he won't be brought up. His movements are clocked like the ball drop, I'm not retarded.
Love you both, buuuuuut... I don't trust it, all I'm saying, and it's all I'm GONNA say...
Well, that and the inevitable "I told you so"..
If you two only knew how you sounded when his name is brought into the discussion. Or you, that night in the car waiting.. Pipe dreams! All of it!!
Maybe in the new year I just need more female friends that realize their own self-worth, that aren't stuck on some dude's nuts even tho they were left "devastated" by said person's actions, etc etc.
No one is allowed to mention Stevo, Clutch, Jason, Larry, or any of the other usual suspects in a negative way to me in 2009 if the person scorned is to blame for the actions that took place.
Which means EVERYONE JUST SHUT THE FUCK UP AND GET OVER IT ALREADY. IT HAPPENED B/C OF YOU. NOT THEM, BUT YOU. PAST THE INITIAL POINT WHERE YOU LEARNED THE TRUE NATURE OF THIS PERSON, THE REST BECAME YOUR FAULT. I DOOOOOOOOOOO NOOOOOOT GIVE A FUCK AT AAAAALLLLLLL IF THEY HURT YOU B/C YOU KEPT LETTING IT HAPPEN.
*panting*
OMFG!
Same shit, new year. Well, I REFUSE.
As a PS, I def didn't write this to piss either of you off. It's more so that IIIII don't get pissed off. You know this already, how I don't handle my friends dealing w/ bs guys all that well. I get to hear the endless bitching even tho all I can think in my head is "I FUCKING SAID THAT FROM THE BEGINNING, THANKS, SO STFU".
If you're worth anything, just let it go. Please?
Nothing compares to a quiet evening alone.
Sunday, January 4, 2009
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